Understanding the Words We Use When We Move to Mexico
When people from the United States or Canada move to Mexico, the word most often used to describe themselves is “expat.” It feels familiar, casual, and widely accepted. But is it the right word? And more importantly, does the language we choose shape the way we see ourselves, our host country, and our responsibilities here? In many cases, “immigrant” is the term that more accurately reflects our reality, even if it’s a label we aren’t accustomed to claiming.
In today’s political climate in the United States, the distinction matters more than ever. While Mexico continues to welcome foreigners with warmth, generosity, and patience, the U.S. has increasingly treated immigrants harshly, even those who have arrived legally and have followed every rule. Recognizing ourselves as immigrants is a powerful way to acknowledge this contrast, honor the place we now call home, and embrace the humility and respect this transition deserves.
Photo courtesy of Jesús Ceballos
What is an expat, and what is an immigrant?
Both words describe people who live outside their country of citizenship, but they carry very different connotations. Expat, short for expatriate, is often used for citizens of wealthier nations who relocate abroad short-term for work, retirement, or lifestyle. Immigrant is used for people who move to another country to build a life there, often with the unspoken connotation that they are from a marginalized people group. But the truth is simple: if you move to another country with the intention of living there long term, participating in the local community, and making it your home, you are an immigrant.
Choosing the word “immigrant” reflects a deeper understanding of belonging. It recognizes that when we live in Mexico, we are not temporary guests floating above local life; we are participants in it. Our presence has an impact, and the way we integrate—socially, culturally, economically—matters.
Honoring Mexico’s generosity
Mexico welcomes foreigners with openness that should not be taken for granted. Millions of Americans and Canadians now live across the country, including here in Puerto Morelos, enjoying safety, community, culture, and a quality of life that is often out of reach back home. Acknowledging that generosity begins by recognizing ourselves accurately.
Calling ourselves immigrants helps us step into a mindset of gratitude and reciprocity. It reminds us that we are the ones adapting to Mexico, not the other way around. It encourages us to:
- Learn Spanish, even if slowly
- Respect cultural traditions and community rhythms, and not try to change them to be more like back in the US or Canada
- Approach challenges with flexibility rather than frustration
- Support local businesses and local artisans
- Participate in community life with humility and care
- Understand that laws and processes here are simply different, not wrong
Adapting with respect
If someone were to move to the United States, we’d expect them to learn the language, understand the culture, follow the laws, and participate respectfully in their new community. The same is true here. Mexico is not a backdrop for our retirement or remote-work lifestyle. It is a sovereign nation with a rich culture, deep history, and people who deserve our respect and active care.
For anyone choosing to make Mexico home, especially in beloved towns like Puerto Morelos, adopting a mindset of curiosity, flexibility, and cultural humility goes a long way. It strengthens cross-cultural friendships, reduces frustration, and helps create a community where both locals and immigrants feel valued.
Our Impact on the Communities We Join
As more foreigners choose to make Mexico their home, it is also important to recognize that our arrival in large numbers can change the fabric of the communities we move into. Increased foreign demand for housing, services, and amenities can contribute to rising property values and cost of living, a process often described as gentrification.
While economic growth can bring benefits, it can also create real challenges for long-time residents if we are not thoughtful about our impact. Being responsible immigrants means approaching our new home with awareness and care:
- supporting locally owned businesses rather than relying only on foreign-owned ones,
- making an effort to learn and use Spanish,
- participating in community events and initiatives led by local residents,
- being mindful of housing choices that affect affordability for local families, and
- listening to the needs and perspectives of the community before trying to reshape it.
When we approach life in Mexico with humility and respect, we help ensure that growth strengthens the community rather than displacing the people who built it.
A shared community in Puerto Morelos
Puerto Morelos thrives because of the blend of local families, long-time residents, newcomers from across Mexico, and immigrants from around the world. When we recognize ourselves as part of that tapestry, rather than separate from it, we help create a more connected and respectful community for everyone.
Whether you’ve lived here for years or you’re planning your move, embracing the identity of immigrant is a meaningful step toward honoring Mexico’s hospitality. And in doing so, we model the same humanity, compassion, and openness that we hope immigrants receive in the places we come from.
If you’re ready to learn, connect, and contribute to the community of Puerto Morelos, you’re in exactly the right place.
Photos courtesy of Somos Semillas Photography, unless otherwise noted.
